Again we are very fortunate to have an article written by Ralph and Linda Miller, Area FH Advisers in New England. We thank them for sharing
Family history is one of the most popular hobbies there is, and the church’s contributions toward family history research are well known. However, we are not using family history to create missionary opportunities as much as we could. What could we do better? Here are some of our thoughts.
When the members of the public are engaged in family history, it is a win-win-win. As they learn more about their ancestors, they feel the Spirit of Elijah, which is the Holy Ghost. As they gather identifying information, it becomes available for potential submission for temple ordinances. As they learn more about their ancestors characters and accomplishments, important lessons are gathered which help them better face life’s challenges. As they learn more about the church’s interest in building eternal families, they may wish to find out more about the church and its doctrines.
Too often, we miss some of the most important opportunities associated with family history. Or in an effort to save time for our nonmember friends, we deny them the excitement of discovery.
Why family history? We often begin presentations about LDS resources by reading Malachi 4:5-6 as a basis for LDS interest in family history. We explain that turning “the heart of the children to their fathers” is tracing your ancestors, and “the heart of the fathers to the children” is recording our own personal history and keeping journals. Besides explaining the importance of family history, this reaffirms our belief in the Bible as scripture.
People are interested in stories and interesting facts. Sometimes we think more is better, so we rush to gather names, dates and places, without bothering to learn much about the individuals. If you’ve watched some of ancestry.com’s commercials lately, you’ve seen that what they think is most exciting are seemingly minor facts like occupation or address. People were more interested in knowing that an aunt lived in a building just a couple blocks away, or that their grandfather was the first doctor in town.
Help people discover facts – perhaps their occupation, where they lived, or interesting stories. These bring the people to life – much more than a chart full of names, dates and places. Working from those facts, see what more you can help them discover. This may be a different approach than the LDS name-identifying, but it appeals to those who really want to understand their ancestors.
People feel the Holy Ghost when they research their families, and it is a good feeling. In our efforts to interest people in family history, we may offer to do research for them – saving time but stealing the thrill. Rather than doing the work for them, sit down together and show them some actual documents, such as census record or birth, marriage and death certificate. Show them the additional clues the document provides. Let them be the explorer.
As they discover clues about an ancestor’s identify, their hearts turn and they feel the Holy Ghost confirm the eternal nature of families – that this person is truly part of them. Don’t skip this important step.
Methodology is less interesting than people. If you plan a family-history-oriented event for the general public, emphasize families, individuals and relationships more than research methodology. Experts find research strategies or resources interesting, but most people do not. They don’t want to become experts – they just want to learn more about their family. Save technical topics for classes for advanced researchers.
One of the opportunities many LDS researchers miss is talking with relatives. While genealogists are more comfortable in quiet archives, the real heart-turning comes when you are face-to-face with someone who can tell you about his or her life and relatives. Spend time in meaningful conversation rather than just gathering facts in quiet solitude.
Listen, listen, listen. As Steve Covey says, seek first to understand than to be understood. People aren’t going to listen if they don’t think you understand what they are interested in. When talking with someone about family history, ask questions to discover what they are really interested in. Don’t have your explanations planned in advance. What do they want? Do they want to know about their heritage, or are there certain family members they really feel drawn to? Do they miss someone who has passed on and want to preserve their memory somehow? Would the idea of eternal marriage or eternal family relationships be something they are interested in right now?
Putting our FAMILY in Family History – The First Annual Raymond Stake “Family” Family History Fair
April 29, 2012 by Peter
Last weekend we had the pleasure of attending and helping with the Raymond Stake Family History Fair. We thought this was a very very successful event which other stakes might want to try. The Raymond Stake has been kind enough to share their plan with us. About 150 people attended the Fireside and over 160 people attended the classes on Saturday. The lunch of soup, whole wheat bread, cookies, and apple crumble (made from dried apples) was delicious. Obviously a lot of planning and preparation went into the event and we have included some of the outlines. Another element that made the event so successful was the large number of presenters and helpers from organizations throughout the stake. Congratulations Raymond Stake!
The following is an extract of their outline for the fair. Please contact us if you need a complete copy of the outline and contact information for the FH leaders in the Raymond Stake.
On Friday evening, April 20th and during the day, Saturday April 21st, The Raymond Stake will host a Family History Fair, centered in Family History activities that we can do as families.
Our Goals
The Format
Our fair will be in two parts. It will begin with a family fireside on Friday evening at 7:00 pm at the Stake Center Chapel. Peter & Linda Darby, our Area Family History Advisors, will be the speakers. During the day Saturday we will host a “drop in” smorgasbord of family centered Family History activities at the Stake Centre and Cultural Hall. This will begin at 9 am and continue till around 4:30 pm. Attendees will be able to choose from a range of concurrent activities, classes, displays and programs, each one repeating 6 times, at 9:30, 10:30, 11:30, 1:30, 2:30, and 3:30. Some of the activities may require a previous signup with designated times for attending. Others will be “free form” and “drop in”. All will be designed for entire families to participate in. Each will take about 45 minutes, and allow 5 to 10 minutes for questions after, and 5 minutes to move the group out and a new one in. Lunch will be provided in the Cultural Hall between 12:30 and 1:30 (the Stake Emergency Preparedness group will be handling this so it could be interesting as well as filling).
The planned activities and their coordinating/sponsoring High Priests groups are:
#1 – Build Your Family Tree and put it on your mantle, save it for a rainy day. (1st Ward)
#2 – How can I write a journal when I can’t even write a note? (4th Ward)
#3 – Can I really learn anything useful from my grandmas and grandpas, aunts and uncles? (7th Ward)
#4 – What is indexing and do I need a dictionary to do it? (5th Ward)
#5 – What does our family stand for, how are we unique, and where did we get our family traditions, traits, habits, recipes and all these things that make us who we are? (3rd Ward)
#6 – How were the lives of our ancestors different from ours, and how were they similar (9th Ward)
#7 – What is this whole NewFamilySearch thing, why is it “new” and is my family really lost enough that I need to be searching for it? (8th Ward)
#8 – I’ve got all these old photos and artifacts and stuff – are they good for anything and if so, how can I save and use them? (6th Ward)
#9 – What’s at the Family History Centre and what can it do for my family? (2nd Ward)
There will be two additional activities that are not repeating “classes” but will be more of a service booth approach:
#10 – “The Doctors are IN” – what FH problems can we help you solve? (Area FH Advisors)
#11 – Haven’t registered for new FamilySearch yet? – Here is your chance – (Stake Clerk and FHC Staff)
What’s next
We are working with the High Priest Group Leaders to define and refine the activities and help find ways to make them whole family experiences. Someone has been assigned to coordinate a publicity campaign and we will all keep reinforcing in a positive way that this is a “Family” Family History event. We also plan to have family history related displays in the Cultural Hall and North Stake Centre foyers, – posters, materials, some artifacts and such.
Please contact (member of HC or FHC Directors) with suggestions, feedback and ideas.
Putting our FAMILY in Family History – April 21, 2012
Activity #1 – Build Your Family Tree (and put it on your mantle) – First Ward
Message – Families are made of real people who are connected in ways we can understand
Activity Description – As a family, talk about what a family tree is. Families can make a physical family tree that can be taken home and displayed, and can also register and receive a fanchart printout showing 9 generations of their family ancestors.
Target Group – Families with younger children for the physical tree and any family for the fanchart
Coordinator – 1st Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Stake Primary people and ward people as needed
What we need
The Take-home – an individual family tree, a visual reminder of how and who makes up our family
Activity #3 – Can I really learn anything new or useful from my grandmas and grandpas, aunts and uncles? – Seventh Ward
Message – Our ancestors and their experiences can be a blessing to us, but only if we know who they are and what they did. We can find these things out by talking to them about their lives and keeping notes or a recording in some way
Activity Description – Examples of Q and A family firesides, possibly a church video on interviewing, ask some of the questions and get the answers, talk about recording with ink and ipods
Target Group – Families with living relatives (that’s most of us)
Coordinator – 7th Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Stake YW, YM
What we need
The Take-home – a better knowledge of a family event or member and an understanding of how to find out about other events that have meaning from our past
Activity #4 – What is indexing and do I need a dictionary to do it? – Fifth Ward
Message – Indexing can be fun and it blesses us all – it is a powerful way to help Family History efforts
Activity Description – A presentation/demonstration about indexing along with actual involvement in indexing records
Target Group – All, with some emphasis on the “gadgetized” youth
Coordinator – 5th Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Stake Indexing director
What we need
The Take-home – an understanding of indexing and its importance in family history work
Activity #9 – What is at the Family History Centre and what can it do for my family? – Second Ward
Message – Tools, resources and training for our research needs can be found at the FHC
Activity Description – Show what is available at the FHC and what help we can receive there
Target Group – all
Coordinator – 2nd Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Family History Directors
What we need
The Take-home – an understanding of where a Family History centre can help a family in their Family History program.
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