by Brother and Sister Miller, Area FH Advisers, Northern part of New England
Probably you are well aware of the family history myths that circulate endlessly. Not only are they false, but they prevent people from getting the blessings they need and deserve.
Family history is hard. Family history is a collection of many small steps. The steps are easy, but together, they make up a magnificent tapestry of your heritage. Even one or two pieces can make a big difference in how you see yourself and your ancestors. Family history is people – your own family. What’s hard about that?
Family history takes a lot of time. Learning about your family is a life-long pursuit, but it is done in small bits of time. By spending just two or three hours per month, you can accomplish a lot, whether it’s getting in touch with family members, interviewing relatives to learn stories, or preparing a name to take to the temple.
You need to be smart to do family history. Obviously false, since we can do it! Having success in discovering family history requires curiosity and questions. You don’t have to know a lot – you just need to want to find out about things. Anyone can ask questions – and write down the answers. The best part is when you are working on family history, you get help – from friends, from family members, and often, from beyond the veil. Once you start asking questions, it will surprise you how the answers come.
Family history is expensive. Like most things, you can spend as much money as you want on it. There are subscription services, like ancestry.com that are helpful, but you can use them for free at your local family history center. Some of the most important information you will get is from family members, and that doesn’t cost much at all!
There will be a better time for family history later. Maybe when you retire, you will have more time – but how many of your older relatives will still be alive then? And your children and grandchildren, who could benefit from learning about the family they are part of, will be grown and perhaps far away. Now is absolutely the best time to begin your family history, or to continue it. Don’t put it off for later.
All my family history is done. When you start gathering information from family members, you will soon see that it is not all done. In addition to building a pedigree on all your family lines, there are stories to record, life lessons to put into words, pictures to gather, and temple work to do.
The church has all my information. One of the advantages of New FamilySearch is that it shows what information already is on file and what information is missing – including temple ordinances. As FamilySearch Indexing continues, more and more information is available in New FamilySearch. But because this information is not directly sent to the temple for ordinances, many of the people identified in the records still wait until a living relative finds them and requests temple ordinances for them. How frustrating it must be to have your information there, in the church’s database, and not have any of your relatives request temple ordinances for you! The church having the information (somewhere, along with information about millions of others) does not mean temple ordinances are done. That step depends on you.
I’m just not interested. Obtaining a testimony of family history and temple work requires involvement. You must “plant the seed” before you taste the fruit. To be honest, we weren’t at all interested in family history until we tried it. We began (like everyone else) because we were “supposed to.” But as soon as we started, we felt something. You can feel it too, perhaps as you discover an ancestor, perhaps in the temple.
I need to focus on my living family before I can think about the dead. Our own families require (and deserve) our best attention. Thankfully, we have many labor-saving resources unknown to our ancestors, so providing home, shelter and other necessities doesn’t require the hours of back-breaking effort it did in the past (making our own soap, growing and preserving all our food – without refrigerators or freezers, making our own clothes, etc.) However, even after the best we can do, our living family members may require more, whether for their health, testimony, or whatever. Family history and temple work provide a great opportunity to secure divine help – not just for ourselves, but for those we love and yearn over. We are convinced that if we will spend time helping unite our families in the spirit world, they somehow intervene to help with our families here on earth.

Putting our FAMILY in Family History – The First Annual Raymond Stake “Family” Family History Fair
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Last weekend we had the pleasure of attending and helping with the Raymond Stake Family History Fair. We thought this was a very very successful event which other stakes might want to try. The Raymond Stake has been kind enough to share their plan with us. About 150 people attended the Fireside and over 160 people attended the classes on Saturday. The lunch of soup, whole wheat bread, cookies, and apple crumble (made from dried apples) was delicious. Obviously a lot of planning and preparation went into the event and we have included some of the outlines. Another element that made the event so successful was the large number of presenters and helpers from organizations throughout the stake. Congratulations Raymond Stake!
The following is an extract of their outline for the fair. Please contact us if you need a complete copy of the outline and contact information for the FH leaders in the Raymond Stake.
On Friday evening, April 20th and during the day, Saturday April 21st, The Raymond Stake will host a Family History Fair, centered in Family History activities that we can do as families.
Our Goals
The Format
Our fair will be in two parts. It will begin with a family fireside on Friday evening at 7:00 pm at the Stake Center Chapel. Peter & Linda Darby, our Area Family History Advisors, will be the speakers. During the day Saturday we will host a “drop in” smorgasbord of family centered Family History activities at the Stake Centre and Cultural Hall. This will begin at 9 am and continue till around 4:30 pm. Attendees will be able to choose from a range of concurrent activities, classes, displays and programs, each one repeating 6 times, at 9:30, 10:30, 11:30, 1:30, 2:30, and 3:30. Some of the activities may require a previous signup with designated times for attending. Others will be “free form” and “drop in”. All will be designed for entire families to participate in. Each will take about 45 minutes, and allow 5 to 10 minutes for questions after, and 5 minutes to move the group out and a new one in. Lunch will be provided in the Cultural Hall between 12:30 and 1:30 (the Stake Emergency Preparedness group will be handling this so it could be interesting as well as filling).
The planned activities and their coordinating/sponsoring High Priests groups are:
#1 – Build Your Family Tree and put it on your mantle, save it for a rainy day. (1st Ward)
#2 – How can I write a journal when I can’t even write a note? (4th Ward)
#3 – Can I really learn anything useful from my grandmas and grandpas, aunts and uncles? (7th Ward)
#4 – What is indexing and do I need a dictionary to do it? (5th Ward)
#5 – What does our family stand for, how are we unique, and where did we get our family traditions, traits, habits, recipes and all these things that make us who we are? (3rd Ward)
#6 – How were the lives of our ancestors different from ours, and how were they similar (9th Ward)
#7 – What is this whole NewFamilySearch thing, why is it “new” and is my family really lost enough that I need to be searching for it? (8th Ward)
#8 – I’ve got all these old photos and artifacts and stuff – are they good for anything and if so, how can I save and use them? (6th Ward)
#9 – What’s at the Family History Centre and what can it do for my family? (2nd Ward)
There will be two additional activities that are not repeating “classes” but will be more of a service booth approach:
#10 – “The Doctors are IN” – what FH problems can we help you solve? (Area FH Advisors)
#11 – Haven’t registered for new FamilySearch yet? – Here is your chance – (Stake Clerk and FHC Staff)
What’s next
We are working with the High Priest Group Leaders to define and refine the activities and help find ways to make them whole family experiences. Someone has been assigned to coordinate a publicity campaign and we will all keep reinforcing in a positive way that this is a “Family” Family History event. We also plan to have family history related displays in the Cultural Hall and North Stake Centre foyers, – posters, materials, some artifacts and such.
Please contact (member of HC or FHC Directors) with suggestions, feedback and ideas.
Putting our FAMILY in Family History – April 21, 2012
Activity #1 – Build Your Family Tree (and put it on your mantle) – First Ward
Message – Families are made of real people who are connected in ways we can understand
Activity Description – As a family, talk about what a family tree is. Families can make a physical family tree that can be taken home and displayed, and can also register and receive a fanchart printout showing 9 generations of their family ancestors.
Target Group – Families with younger children for the physical tree and any family for the fanchart
Coordinator – 1st Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Stake Primary people and ward people as needed
What we need
The Take-home – an individual family tree, a visual reminder of how and who makes up our family
Activity #3 – Can I really learn anything new or useful from my grandmas and grandpas, aunts and uncles? – Seventh Ward
Message – Our ancestors and their experiences can be a blessing to us, but only if we know who they are and what they did. We can find these things out by talking to them about their lives and keeping notes or a recording in some way
Activity Description – Examples of Q and A family firesides, possibly a church video on interviewing, ask some of the questions and get the answers, talk about recording with ink and ipods
Target Group – Families with living relatives (that’s most of us)
Coordinator – 7th Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Stake YW, YM
What we need
The Take-home – a better knowledge of a family event or member and an understanding of how to find out about other events that have meaning from our past
Activity #4 – What is indexing and do I need a dictionary to do it? – Fifth Ward
Message – Indexing can be fun and it blesses us all – it is a powerful way to help Family History efforts
Activity Description – A presentation/demonstration about indexing along with actual involvement in indexing records
Target Group – All, with some emphasis on the “gadgetized” youth
Coordinator – 5th Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Stake Indexing director
What we need
The Take-home – an understanding of indexing and its importance in family history work
Activity #9 – What is at the Family History Centre and what can it do for my family? – Second Ward
Message – Tools, resources and training for our research needs can be found at the FHC
Activity Description – Show what is available at the FHC and what help we can receive there
Target Group – all
Coordinator – 2nd Ward High Priests
Possible assisting organization – Family History Directors
What we need
The Take-home – an understanding of where a Family History centre can help a family in their Family History program.
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